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Transform your relationship with Gottman Method couples coaching

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Welcome to a new chapter in your relationship journey.

As a certified Gottman Method coach, I'm here to guide you and your partner towards a stronger, more fulfilling partnership using research-based techniques and strategies.

What is Gottman Method Couples Coaching?

Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this approach is:

Grounded in extensive relationship research

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Designed to equip couples with practical tools and strategies

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Goes beyond simple goal-setting and problem-solving

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Effective for enhancing communication, resolving conflicts, and deepening emotional connections

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At the heart of this method is the "Sound Relationship House," a framework that addresses all aspects of a healthy relationship. Together, we'll explore each level of this house, strengthening your bond and creating a more satisfying partnership.

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The Gottman Method:
Building a Solid Foundation for Love

Gottman Method couples coaching is a proactive, prevention-focused approach that empowers you to create a deeper understanding of each other and build a stronger relationship foundation.

Key Components of Gottman Method Coaching:

Building Love Maps: Develop a detailed understanding of your partner's world.

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Turning Towards Each Other: Learn to recognise and respond to your partner's bids for connection.

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Making Life Dreams Come True: Support each other's hopes and aspirations.

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Sharing Fondness and Admiration: Cultivate appreciation and respect in your relationship.

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Managing Conflict: Navigate disagreements effectively without escalating tensions.

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Creating Shared Meaning: Develop a shared vision for your relationship and life together.

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HERE’S HOW

My Approach:

As your Gottman Method coach, I create a safe, supportive environment where you and your partner can:

  • Enhance your understanding of each other

  • Develop more effective communication skills

  • Learn to navigate conflicts constructively

  • Deepen your emotional and physical intimacy

  • Create a shared vision for your future together

Techniques:

Here are some of the techniques we will utilise:

  • Emotion Coaching: Identify and express emotions constructively.

  • Conflict Management: Learn effective strategies for handling disagreements.

  • Intimacy Building: Foster deeper emotional and physical connections.

  • Shared Meaning Creation: Develop a unified vision for your relationship.

Whether you're looking to strengthen an already good relationship or work through challenges, Gottman Method coaching can help you build a more resilient, satisfying partnership.

Ready to start your journey?

Book your free 30-minute Zoom consultation today and look forward to a relaxed, informal chat to discuss your needs

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Frequently Asked Questions About Gottman Method Couples Coaching

  • The Gottman Method is unique because it's based on over four decades of scientific research on thousands of couples. It provides practical, evidence-based strategies that focus on strengthening your relationship's foundation rather than just solving immediate problems.

  • Not at all! While the Gottman Method is effective for addressing challenges, it's equally valuable for couples who want to proactively strengthen their relationship. It's about building resilience and deepening your connection, regardless of where your relationship currently stands.

  • The duration can vary depending on your specific needs and goals. Typically, couples attend 8-12 sessions, but some may benefit from shorter or longer engagements. We'll discuss a personalised plan during your free consultation.

  • While it's ideal for both partners to participate, even one person learning and applying Gottman principles can positively impact a relationship. However, the most significant transformations occur when both partners are engaged in the process.

  • Yes! The Gottman Method has been proven effective for couples of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and relationship stages - whether you're dating, engaged, married, or in a long-term partnership. It's also inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations.

  • Sessions are tailored to your unique needs, but generally include a mix of education about relationship principles, practical exercises, and guided discussions. We'll work on building skills, addressing specific issues, and creating positive interactions. Each session builds on the last, creating a comprehensive approach to enhancing your relationship.